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Offline Roxy

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IT'S MY PREROGATIVE
« on: February 09, 2012, 05:39:42 PM »
WARNING! The following post is bound to get a few hackles up, which I both acknowledge & empathize with in advance.

I would like to drive it home that this is purely a physical attraction element for me. It's thankfully a very rare occurrence that can render sex a moot point. However, I feel compelled to stop a potential train wreck before we even leave the station. Thus, I consider it almost a duty of care to refuse a booking if I don't think it will work out.

It has nothing to do with such people on a personal level. I have no doubt that the people I'm rejecting are great with kids, giving to charity & kind to animals. However, I'm now mature & experienced enough to recognize what works for me, & what doesn't. My arousal watershed that can either make or break my passion, & I've learnt not to question that which cannot be truly explained - individual sexual attraction.

Some guys like blondes, some prefer redheads - same principle. If you wanted to hear a copout version of this explanation, it would go a little something like this - "it's not you, it's me!"   

Thus, knowing that my professional reputation hinges on 'giving my all', I've chosen not to see particular clients who just don't 'do it' for me. I always promised myself that when this job stopped being fun, I would pick up my bat & ball & take my game elsewhere. I still hold true to that promise today, despite the occasional petulant (& persistent!) whinge that I'm sometimes subject to.

Lately, I have received a streaming barrage of abuse from a certain sector. They are people wishing to use my service who I refuse to see. Why? Because - in addition to crackpots, whingers, creeps & mean people - I do not cater for Indian, African or Middle Eastern clients.

To me, itís a cut-and-dry subject: Itís my pussy & my choice.

I COULD go into intimate detail about WHY I choose not to see these people, but I prefer to leave it on a civilised note. You identify as one of these people? Well, more power to you. I wish you every future happiness. However, such happiness wonít be hinging on me riding you like a bucking bronco.

It still makes me smile when I come across people who try to reverse my personal preferences for their own gain. I sometimes entertain such attempts briefly, if only for my own amusement. Iím sure the thrill is in the challenge for such people. However, the end result is always going to be the same: NO.

NO now, NO tomorrow, NO forever.

Yet some people feel that greater offers of money will entice me to abandon my preferences. If anything, this has the effect of making me loathe them more. Am I to assume that you think of me as a cheap street urchin who will turn for a lazy dollar? Well if so, it is time for an awakening. Not everything revolves around money.

*collective gasps across the room*

I operate on a level of comfort. If I feel comfortable & secure with somebody, I will go above & beyond the call of duty in order to please. However, if all I want to do is run screaming from the room, you will NOT get me at my best. Isnít it better, then, if we just forget the whole thing? I save myself potential embarrassment, & you save yourself a potential wasted dollar.

It makes perfect sense to me.

However, there is the odd Dopey Dora who chooses to push my buttons & risk my wraith. Such a specimen told me that my policy was racist, & he would Ďgo on airí to out me as being such a bigoted bitch. I encouraged him to do what he thought was rightÖ but not to neglect mentioning he was attempting to visit a prostitute when the alleged discrimination occurred. If he didnít mention this information, I WOULD. Strangely enough, I havenít heard anything furtherÖ

So, stripped of my potential 15 minutes of fame, I sit here pondering why on earth he would want to fuck someone who obviously didnít want to fuck him? In the past, Iíve had people walk when theyíve met me. Ironically enough, theyíve been Indian. I obviously just didnít do it for them (thank God). However, I didnít chase them down the street & DEMAND to know why I wasnít good enough for them. Frankly, it was one less potential asshole.

Arenít I entitled to the same courtesy?

Isnít freedom of choice the right of EVERYBODY?
Roxanne Wilde
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Re: IT'S MY PREROGATIVE
« Reply #1 on: February 09, 2012, 06:23:50 PM »

Yet some people feel that greater offers of money will entice me to abandon my preferences. If anything, this has the effect of making me loathe them more. Am I to assume that you think of me as a cheap street urchin who will turn for a lazy dollar? Well if so, it is time for an awakening. Not everything revolves around money.

*collective gasps across the room*


It is funny how most people don't understand the concept of "not everything revovles around Money".  I remember many years ago that I could have changed jobs and been paid $50,000 PA extra (nearly doubling my income at the time) but I would have loathed the work - so I kept my "lowly paid" job (and people were envious of my job even though they were paid more than I earned). 

Even today I could "go for the money"but I would rather do what I enjoy than be paid more to do something I hate. 

Kudos to you Roxy not only for having principles but for sticking to them.

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« Reply #2 on: February 09, 2012, 06:57:15 PM »

Fair enough,  there are a few shops around that only serve asians, the girls have their reasons . I don't see a problem, just go somewhere else. It works both ways.

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Re: IT'S MY PREROGATIVE
« Reply #3 on: February 09, 2012, 07:44:17 PM »
...Go somewhere else. It works both ways.

That sums up the moral of my story nicely, thank you.  :-*

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Re: IT'S MY PREROGATIVE
« Reply #4 on: February 09, 2012, 07:57:27 PM »
I've had some very good experiences with Indian and African girls. Actually, I don't worry about the girls race at all, I just judge them as people.

Sure it's your prerogative to choose your customers, but if you base it just on race then it's your loss if you miss out on some good potential customers.

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« Reply #5 on: February 09, 2012, 09:04:38 PM »
I REPEAT:

"...I COULD go into intimate detail about WHY I choose not to see these people, but I prefer to leave it on a civilised note. You identify as one of these people? Well, more power to you. I wish you every future happiness. However, such happiness wonít be hinging on me riding you like a bucking bronco."

& AGAIN:

"...I would like to drive it home that this is purely a physical attraction element for me. It's thankfully a very rare occurrence that can render sex a moot point. However, I feel compelled to stop a potential train wreck before we even leave the station. Thus, I consider it almost a duty of care to refuse a booking if I don't think it will work out."

You're turning this into a race issue. That's just one side of a very complex coin. At the risk of sounding like a broken record:

"... It has nothing to do with such people on a personal level. I have no doubt that the people I'm rejecting are great with kids, giving to charity & kind to animals. However, I'm now mature & experienced enough to recognize what works for me, & what doesn't. My arousal watershed that can either make or break my passion, & I've learnt not to question that which cannot be truly explained - individual sexual attraction.

Some guys like blondes, some prefer redheads - same principle. If you wanted to hear a copout version of this explanation, it would go a little something like this - "it's not you, it's me!"   

Thus, knowing that my professional reputation hinges on 'giving my all', I've chosen not to see particular clients who just don't 'do it' for me. I always promised myself that when this job stopped being fun, I would pick up my bat & ball & take my game elsewhere. I still hold true to that promise today, despite the occasional petulant (& persistent!) whinge that I'm sometimes subject to."
Roxanne Wilde
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Re: IT'S MY PREROGATIVE
« Reply #6 on: February 09, 2012, 10:10:53 PM »
Again, this woman is amazing,

Thus, knowing that my professional reputation hinges on 'giving my all', I've chosen not to see particular clients who just don't 'do it' for me. I always promised myself that when this job stopped being fun, I would pick up my bat & ball & take my game elsewhere. I still hold true to that promise today, despite the occasional petulant (& persistent!) whinge that I'm sometimes subject to."

I am sure all MHGers would agree the best punts are the ones where there is a connection, after all we all enjoy he two way tango, the mutual oral, the greatest and dont we all enjoy it when we DATY and make our WL cum. (Ifnot then there are some very fanciful reviews floating around).

Roxy is just being honest here and I wish more wl's would consider this approach and say I am sorry I dont want your money cos I can only offer you a dud root.

Anyway my two cents worth.


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Re: IT'S MY PREROGATIVE
« Reply #7 on: February 09, 2012, 10:45:15 PM »
No - Roxy's a racist - that's her prerogative, but that's what she is.

That's my 2 cents worth.

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Re: IT'S MY PREROGATIVE
« Reply #8 on: February 09, 2012, 10:54:55 PM »
Why does making a personal choice based on experience, likes and dislikes - toward any nationality make you a racist?
Is the forum full of racists fucking asian girls because they are cheaper and more willing?
Last time I looked you/we/anyone could fuck anyone you/we wanted - or refuse anyone - even more so if you are charging and offering a service.
The service provider can make the call based on many variables - and good on her for being smart enough to make choices and invest emotionally in those that she chooses to see.

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Re: IT'S MY PREROGATIVE
« Reply #9 on: February 10, 2012, 08:16:28 AM »
Foxy is just stating what tickles her fancy and what doesn't. Good on her for that, it does not make her a racist.

She has not made derogatory comments about any opparticularnrace, she has not informed us that she bashes them up in the  street, waves placards against any race when she protests in front of parliament house, spooks to the shock jocks on radio, all the actions of a racist.

Again my vote goes to Roxy for being honest, and up front. Before a punter parts with his hard earned dollars.

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Re: IT'S MY PREROGATIVE
« Reply #10 on: February 10, 2012, 12:54:09 PM »
I've been happily surprised about the mature, rational debate that we've enjoyed here. :) By contrast, I've also received delightful responses such as this one (my reply follows directly after):

Go on being a racist bigoted bitch. You sound like my kind of lady.
As you say Itís your pussy & your choice.
Some people just do not believe that someone can say NO.

Cheers and Beers

XXX, Today, 02:12 AM

MY REPLY:
Well, that was quite simply confusing & weird... 
Considering that I've been the victim of racism myself, I find it curious when people have to always find the lowest common denominator.

Call me precious, but I take offense at being called a BITCH. The racist & bigoted labels are not even worthy of a response. But calling me a derogatory name based purely on my gender is about as bigoted as my apparent racism.

This is not an issue about race. This ia an issue about personal choice. The fact that I can't even discuss such things without copping the 'racist, bigoted bitch' BS merely serves to demonstrate just how little choice some people would grant me.
I have the right to make a personal decision regarding which penis penetrates my body.
After all, I AM more than just a paid vagina on legs... Aren't I?  Roxanne Wilde, Today, 10:50 AM
« Last Edit: February 10, 2012, 02:10:06 PM by Roxy »
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Re: IT'S MY PREROGATIVE
« Reply #11 on: February 10, 2012, 04:39:12 PM »

We are not talking about refusing someone entry to a club , it's about intimate contact and swapping body fluids with a stranger . Normally you get to know the person  before having sex , with punting you fuck first ask questions latter.

 All you can go on is looks, personal experience and gut instinct. Plenty of girls have told me they don't like having sex with certain types of people and who can blame them, it's their livelihood and their choice. 

Even though I am more Australian then most , I have  what used to be called, " a touch of the tar brush ", as you get older you just get over it .

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Re: IT'S MY PREROGATIVE
« Reply #12 on: February 10, 2012, 06:00:50 PM »
In truth Mac, the more 'Australian'  you are, the blacker you are.....

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Re: IT'S MY PREROGATIVE
« Reply #13 on: February 10, 2012, 07:39:50 PM »
I donít believe that making a choice based upon personal experiences is blatant racism or unfair. I have had enough experience to know that there are some groups of men that generally have far less respect for girls than others. Is stating the truth about cultural habits and attitudes being racist? I donít think so. Sure, not all guys in certain ethnic groups are sexist, but that does not mean that many of them have different attitudes, which obviously will not lead to a happy experience with an intelligent, independent, girl like Roxy who is certainly NOT submissive. She has every right to refuse intimate service to any person whom she suspects she will not be able to provide a top of the line pleasurable experience to. If the punter isnít going to have some affiliation with the girl, and hence not enjoy the service, then what is the point? And why should any working girl have to put up with a bad experience, they are more than paid orifices! Well stated Roxy. If what you have said is racist, then almost every person on this planet is racist as well.